I'm new to online dating, and the big apps overwhelmed me fast. It reached the point where my mother stopped asking, which honestly stung. I wanted to meet one person who'd make me delete everything else without regret. A librarian I chat with recommended this military dating site and I'm writing this between two scheduled dates, so there's that. I'd honestly forgotten that dating could feel this low-pressure. And to think I almost didn't bother that evening.